Tobey Maguire's Ex Jennifer Meyer Shares How Gwyneth Paltrow Helped With Her Breakup

Jennifer Meyer is thanking her lucky stars that she has Gwyneth Paltrow in her life.

The jewelry designer recently got candid about her 2016 divorce from Tobey Maguire, and she revealed how the Goop founder and her own split from Chris Martin inspired the amazing relationship she and the Spider-Man alum have now.

"Right when Tobey and I were starting to break up, I watched what Gwyneth Paltrow was doing with Chris" Jennifer said on the Broad Ideas with Rachel Bilson & Olivia Allen podcast July 22. "This 'conscious uncoupling' that everyone was sort of making fun of. I got to see it firsthand, and it was the most beautiful thing I had ever witnessed two human beings go through."

"I was taught that divorce is ugly," the 47-year-old continued. "I was taught that divorce was bad and it would never be good."

But watching Gwyneth be "so loving and kind and open" with Chris made her realize that she and Tobey could find the positive in their split.

"I just witnessed their beautiful breakup," she continued, "and I was like, 'You guys are an example for every couple who is breaking up.'"

Gwyneth introduced Jennifer and Tobey to Dr. Habib Sadeghi, the man who coined the idea of "conscious uncoupling." And Jennifer is incredibly grateful she and the Great Gatsby alum—who share kids Ruby, 17, and son Otis, 15—went through that together, because these days their relationship is better than ever.

"Tobey is my best friend now," she said. "We travel together, we do every holiday together, I'm so lucky."

"I literally have the best ex-husband in the world and I hit the jackpot," Jennifer added. "I honestly don't know what I would do without him in my life. I ride for him so hard. He's so phenomenal."

Still, she acknowledges that their thriving relationship—which Jennifer revealed also includes his close bond with her boyfriend—didn't happen overnight, stressing, "Tobey and I have done a lot of work to create that."

And as part of their close dynamic, Jennifer has also set the record straight when it comes to rumors about Tobey, whom she was wed for nine years, most recently that he was dating 20-year-old model Lily Chee.

"I don't usually respond to such nonsense, but he was kindly helping a friend to her car," Jennifer responded to a commenter on Instagram. "Being a good guy. And now he has [sic] blasted online for dating someone he is not."

She added, "Don't believe everything you read. Tobey is as good of a guy as it gets."

For a look at more stars who have maintained positive relationships with their exes, keep reading.

No, they are never, ever, ever getting back together. But at this point—between the birthday parties, the friendly embraces and even freaking acting out a sexual fantasy in a star-studded virtual reading of Fast Times at Ridgemont High—it feels like the former Hollywood golden couple is just taunting us. 

You know you're cool when you can pop into your ex's talk show and give him a hard time. Such was the case when Silverman turned up on Kimmel's stage to chat about her new show, I Love You, America and his "cute," "bright," "funny" wife Molly Kimmel. "It's not fair!" she cracked. "She gets, like, new woke Jimmy. I had Man Show Jimmy."

TBH, we might still be mourning this relationship harder than either of its participants. Because when Faris—now engaged to cinematographer Michael Barrett—heard that Pratt was set to wed Katherine Schwarzenegger in 2019, she offered to officiate. She even sent over a gift after the newlyweds welcomed daughter Lyla in August 2020. Thrilled for son Jack to become a big brother, a source told E! News, Faris "is very supportive." 

It would have been super easy for the exes' relationship to become a flop. But more than four years after a messy split, the HGTV stars are still killing it at two projects: parenting kids Taylor and Brayden and turning run-down properties into someone else's dream home.

Literally "best friends" as the rocker put it in a 2013 interview with Oprah Winfrey, the parents to actress Zoe Kravitz still consider themselves kin. "We're one big happy family," Kravitz said of his ex, now wed to Jason Momoa. "It's beautiful, and it just shows you what can be done."

Since their 2015 breakup, the parents to Violet, Seraphina, and Samuel have hit the conscious uncoupling trifecta: Joint vacations, shared holidays and public displays of admiration with Affleck dubbing his ex "an amazing mother" during a 2016 interview with E! News. 

Nina and Ian may have called it quits in 2013 after three years of dating, but they've remained close friends since then. In 2014, the Vampire Diaries star started dating Nikki Reed and tied the knot later that year. Naturally, Dobrev befriended the Twilight actress.

The two called it quits in July 2016 after five years together. The singer said on SiriusXM's The Howard Stern Show the following October that she's "very close" to Kinney, adding, "He's been my lover and a friend for so long," she said. "We love each other. That's it."

The exes had no trouble coparenting their son, Bronx, after finalizing their divorce back in 2011. The Fall Out Boy star has even said his former wife is "an awesome mom."

So she's over those "7 Things" then? The JoBro musician has said he's "really friendly" with his ex. "We've got a good relationship."

The Dexter stars first met on set in 2006 before things got romantic in 2008. And although they divorced in 2011, Carpenter assured there was "nothing but love and respect" between the exes a few years later. 

Long the gold standard of copacetic exes, the parents to daughters Rumer, Tallulah and Scout remain so tight that the decision to ride out coronavirus stay-at-home orders together in Idaho was a no-brainer. Quarantine dance party anyone?

Some four years after their 2014 divorce, Lopez was still giving her former spouse, dad to her twins Max and Emme, props. "While I was married to Marc, he really helped me with my confidence and he saw where I suffered," she said on a 2018 episode of Sunday Today. "He was like, 'You're a great singer. Don't ever let anybody tell you you're not a great singer.' And I respected him so much 'cause I consider him one of the best singers of all time."

Even if it hasn't been his day, his week, his month or even his year, the actress will be there for her former husband and Scream costar. "I mean, as divorces go, I would say it's one of the better ones. For sure," she shared on Running Wild With Bear Grylls eight years after their 2010 split. Raising daughter Coco, she continued, "We're good co-parents together."

Their real life romance may have fizzled in 2007. However, that doesn't mean the two couldn't heat up the screen in the 2011 movie Bad Teacher.

Sure, the initial few months of their 2013 split were rough going, but the actors have now reached the group vacation stage of their divorce. "I really like her husband and I think he's a great guy," the Twilight alum told LaPalme Magazine of a 2017 trip to Cancun that included Garth, Dave Abrams, Facinelli's now-fiancée Lily Anne Harrison and their three daughters Luca, Lola and Fiona. As for his relationship with Garth, he continued, "People come into your life for a reason and relationships can change," he told LaPalme. "Just because we aren't living together doesn't mean you can't love each other."

Despite a surprise separation in September 2012, the couple decided to put on a united front for their children. "As you know, Will and I are very, very good friends," she explained during a 2014 interview with Howard Stern. "We are doing a really good job. I don't think a 10-year marriage constitutes a failure. I think relationships are really tough."